by Carlos Diaz
The issue of same-sex marriage is now more than ever in the public sphere. That is why I took the decision of focusing my posts, for a short period of time, on this issue. I will be writing several entries related to the topic over the upcoming days.
Same-Sex Marriage
From the moment I became aware of the debate occurring around the question of whether to change the definition of marriage into a gender-neutral institution, I knew what side of the debate I was on. As most in my generation I chose to stand in the side of those who would like to see the right to marry extended to couples of the same sex. Most people who decide to take a position on this debate have no concrete argument to defend their opinion, I was no different. Listening to the oral arguments of the latest Supreme Court case dealing with same-sex marriage, Hollingsworth v. Perry, encouraged me to dig deeper into this most recent of the so called culture wars. In the following posts I will share my findings. During my research I encountered arguments from different parts of the political spectrum, both in favor and in opposition of same-sex marriage. It is not as right v. left as we might be led to believe. I will write a series of essays dealing with various aspects of this issue, including tradition, religion, purpose of marriage, the slippery slope argument, and most important of all to today’s debate, legality.
Tradition
Some of the most common arguments used in opposition to same-sex marriage are, that it is somehow unprecedented, revolutionary, and that it will radically change the definition of the bedrock institution that marriage is. The first of the concerns is erroneous; same-sex marriage is not unprecedented. The second is somewhat true, the idea of allowing homosexuals to marry can be considered conservatively revolutionary. The third argument can only be accepted if one is not aware of the true history of marriage.
There is enough evidence to believe that same-sex marriages were held in societies of the past even Christian ones. In his book ,Same Sex Unions in Premodern Europe, Yale historian John Boswell describes rituals which were held in Medieval Europe during the 12th and 13th centuries with the purpose of creating a union between two men. There are many accounts that some Native American communities practiced same-sex marriages. One of the most well known accounts was written by the Spanish explorer Álvar Núñez Cabeza de Vaca. There are also cases from places in China which were recorded by the historian Hu P’U-an. There is vast documentation of practices occurring in Africa in a book titled, A Note on Woman Marriage in Pahoney. I don’t use these examples as a justification for same-sex marriage, but simply to discredit the argument that such an idea is unprecedented.
Another criticism of same-sex marriage is that it is revolutionary. I am inclined to disagree with this argument. My disagreement stems from an obvious fact. Asking for permission to participate in a very traditional and conservative institution as marriage is not an utterly revolutionary thing to do. When talking about revolution it is best to quote Karl Marx, “man was not freed from religion, he received religious freedom. He was not freed from property, he received freedom to own property….” Using this same language it could be argued that homosexuals don’t want to be freed from marriage, they want to be given freedom to marry. In other words a revolutionary move is what many on the left argued for before the AIDS epidemic transformed the movement, emancipation from marriage for both homosexuals and heterosexuals. The current argument about this issue is better represented by conservatives like David Brooks and Andrew Sullivan. They argue that allowing people to enter an institution which promotes stability, fidelity, monogamy, and commitment should be a core conservative value which will strengthen the institution.
Marriage is a bedrock institution and it has been around in different forms for thousands of years. But what those who argue that allowing homosexuals to marry will signify a radical change don’t understand is that marriage is not a dead institution, it is alive and constantly changing. For most of history marriage was not about love or raising children. It was an institution whose main use was acquiring wealth, power, property, and creating alliances. Allowing homosexuals to marry will not be a revolutionary change to the institution. It will simply be another change in an institution which has gone through many changes since its inception. What I think is happening today is that marriage has arrived at a point in which the main concern is neither child rearing nor wealth accumulation. The institution today is much more tied to love than ever before, this argument is presented beautifully in a book, which does not deal at length with same-sex marriage, subtitled How Love Conquered Marriage. If marriage today is about love- I believe it is- then there is no excuse for not allowing homosexuals to enter the institution of marriage.